Understanding the Purpose and Power of Men

Understanding the Purpose and Power of Men

they walk around saying, ―I am the final authority.‖ They don‘t realize that the women God gave them are a blessing and that they are there to help them carry out their vision. If you as a man — whether married or single — believe that you don‘t need women, you are missing an important as pect of your existence. Many males with whom I‘ve been in contact over the years believe that women were put on earth by God to de stroy them. They think that everything a woman does is conniving and scheming. They don‘t understand the true n a ture and p urpose of women. If you don‘t understand why something is the way it is, you will become suspicious of its nature. For example, sometimes the help that a woman brings

a man is interpreted as a threat. He sees it as her trying to take his position. Many m en don‘t understand the value of the woman in her purpose as helper. So when a woman wants to be a part of what a man is doing, he thinks she‘s interfering. Yet she is the way she is because of why

Sometimes

a woman’s

help is

seen as a

threat.

she was created. She wants to know what you‘re doing that she can‘t help with. What could be so secr etive, so deep? Women who are kept at a distance by men keep on reaching out, trying to help, but the men see them as a nuisance and say, ―Mind your own business. This is a man‘s world; find your place.‖ Well, her place is right next to you, helping you. If she can‘t help you, she will help something — or someone — else. Some of these precious women are so talented, so expe rienced in all kinds of things. They have excellent educa tions, are very accomplished, and are ready to help their husbands or other males in any way they can, but the men get flip pant with them because they don‘t understand God‘s plan. One of the reasons for this is that some men can‘t ha n dle the presence of a complete woman. My friend, you‘re not a strong man until you can handle the weight of a real wom an —I‘m talking about a real woman. Some women are off

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