Understanding the Purpose and Power of Men

How to Be a Good Father

the home will likely determine what your children will say in the end. Will they say, ―I will serve the God of my father‖? Or will they say, ―The God of my father is not worth ser v ing‖? I want my children to see the faithfulness of God di s p layed in my life. I want them to be able to say, ―This God that my father and mother serve does everything He says He will do. My mother said that God was going to do this, and He did it. My father prayed that this would happen, and it happened. This God is real. I will follow the God of my par ents because He is faithful.‖ The second most important thing a man can do for his children is to love their mother. Many men buy gifts for their children, such as bicycles and computers, when what the children want and need most is to see their fathers truly love their mothers. I think there is nothing more precious than for a child to see his parents being affectionate with one another. I think kids get a feeling of security when they see that. Showing consideration and respect for your wife is ex tremely important. Are you demanding and impatient with your spouse, or do you treat her with kindness and under standing? What are you modeling for your children about what it means to be a husband? Children take in everything they see, and your children observe the way you treat your wife much more than you may know. A child will often lose respect for his father if he doesn‘t see him giving his mother the consideration and love she deserves. Many men don‘t realize that their treatment of their wives affects not only how their children see them, but also how God views them. If a husband doesn‘t treat his wife with respect, his very prayers may be hindered: Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect…so that nothing will hinder your prayers. (1 Pet. 3:7) When you love the mother of your children, you bring peace and happiness into your home, and you teach your children by example what it means to be a real man. 2. A Good Father Loves the Mother of His Children

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