The Rules of Engagement

The Rules of Engagement

Rejection from others often leads to the rejection of self, which produces feelings of worthlessness and inferiority, depression, emotional isolation, introspection, perfectionism, irresponsibility, guilt, and self-hatred. People who have lived under constant rejection eventually have a difficult time expressing feelings, asserting himself/herself, or taking control of his/her life. Rejected people reject as a result of an acquired defense mechanism. (See Mark 8:31; 12:10.) For a greater study, please see chapter 9. R eligiosity Religiosity is a system of beliefs, principles, creeds, dogmas, and faith to which an individual adheres. (See Galatians 1:13–14; James 1:26–27.) R esentment Resentment is an irrational mind-set created by the enemy that causes a person to feel indignation or ill will toward another as a result of a real or imagined grievance. (See Genesis 4:1–8.) R etaliation Retaliation is a weapon used to get back at someone, especially if you are making spiritual inroads in prayer and spiritual warfare. The more you war against the enemy, the more he will desire to get back at you. The Latin phrase for this is quid pro quo . You will advance on one hand, then the enemy will attempt to cause you to lose ground on the other. The ultimate intent is for you to lose control of your emotions, lose hope, and to break your focus. He may retaliate by hitting your finances, family, marriage, friendships, busi ness, or any other area he feels will weaken you in your battle. (See Esther 5:9–14.) S abotage Sabotage is used to cause malicious destruction to an individual or the cessa tion of a work, a cause, a relationship, or a ministry. (See Nehemiah 6:1–6.)

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